Family Court judges always tell litigants that the best way to resolve a custody dispute is for the parties to work out their differences themselves and create a custody schedule that works best for them and their children. In addition, children benefit from having their parents reach an agreement about custody and visitation schedules because there tends to be less animosity and tension between their parents when there is an agreement.

New Jersey courts require that parents in custody disputes attend at least one mediation session with a court mediator, and attorneys are not permitted to be present. If no agreement is reached, the case will be listed before a judge. It is a good idea to retain an attorney prior to the court mediation session so that you can find out your custody rights and options. That way you will be well-informed when you attend the mediation session. In addition, you can have your attorney review any agreement that is reached before you sign it, your attorney can continue negotiations for you if a final agreement is not reached, or you are represented and ready for the next listing before a judge if no agreement is reached at mediation.