Once you make an appointment to meet with your divorce lawyer for the first time, you may be feeling anxious, emotional, or stressed during this difficult time in your life. The meeting itself should not add to your stress, which is why it is good to know what you should bring with you to the appointment and what you can expect at the meeting with your divorce lawyer.
The types of paperwork that you should bring with you to your meeting include the following: three recent paystubs for you and your spouse (if available to you), most recent tax return, recent retirement account statement for you and your spouse, recent bank statements from any bank accounts that you or your spouse have, recent credit card statements for you and your spouse, Social Security annual statements for you and your spouse, and recent receipts for childcare or private school tuition for your children. You can bring as many of these documents to the meeting as you can because they will help the lawyer understand your family’s financial situation at this time.
At the first meeting with your divorce lawyer, you can expect the attorney to ask you questions about your marriage, your children, your current living situation, and your family’s income, assets, and debts. The lawyer should provide you with your legal options and explain an overview of the divorce process to you, and you should feel comfortable talking to your lawyer. Hopefully the first meeting will leave you feeling better because you will have a clear understanding of the divorce process and your legal options.